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Comfort. Next Level Maneuver.

I have met many who believe the key to bedding a beautiful girl is money, clothing, and looks. They help get you 30% of the way there.

The other 70% is making a girl feel comfortable around you. A girl becomes comfortable when she is willing to be alone with you and let her friends go on their way. A girl feels comfortable around you when she lets you kiss her. A girl feels comfortable when you both are playing “Ten Toes Up, Ten Toes Down.”

Now there are a number of ways to make a girl feel comfortable around you in person. Mainly not being creepy, desperate, and socially inept. These are skills that you have to develop through ponder, practice patience, and perseverance.

However too many guys neglect creating comfort in their own home. They find themselves confused and seething when a girl makes for the exit. They call her a cock-tease.

Dearest proteges. You forgot that your home is your kingdom and your kingdom a direct reflection of you as a ruler.

1. Your apartment

should be spotless. Your bathroom must be sparkling. The beautiful thing about our generation is that it has become somewhat expected that a guy’s place is to be in disarray. Tetanus shot necessary on exit. She expects to find hair from your shave in the sink. Hair on the toilet seat. Pizza boxes on the floor.

Imagine her surprise when your home looks immaculate. It’s easier to make moves on a couch when there aren’t pairs of jeans on them.

2. Decorations.

Share who you are with the essence of alpha. There is nothing wrong with having movie posters of your favorite movies, but frame them. Replace duct-tape with nails. If you are a Star-Trek fan, do not be ashamed, however make that fact awesome. Buy props instead of replicas and display them with style. One of the greatest blunders men make when decorating their home is buying things that “look cool” but do not have a story behind them. Everything in my apartment has a story to it because I would not showcase it unless I found it important.

Does that painting on my wall have a story? Yes. Does that punching bag in the corner? Yes. Does that bomb next to the couch? Yes. Are those Crayons and a Coloring Book on the coffee table? Yes. Story? Definitely.

3. Your Bedroom

The Bed. This is perhapse the easiest place to mess up. You may not realize it but spending money on high-thread counts is godly. Combine it with a down-comforter and down pillows of great caliber and your bed becomes addictive.

After a night with a girl, even your own girlfriend, initiate the rendezvous method. Always wash your sheets after a rendezvous. Women have a superior sense of scent compared to men. She will be able to smell if another woman was on your bed. Play it safe.

Your room. Girls whom you have slept with more than three times have a habit of leaving inconsequential things behind. Territory-Marking. Things such as scrunchies, ear-rings, lip gloss. I do not know if this is conscious or sub-conscious, but it requires you to become vigilant. While the sheets are in the wash, I scour. When I was younger a girl found a hair band that did not belong to her. I kept my cool, however it took her two days until she started texting me again. Easily Avoidable.

Make sure your room smells good. Use lamps to create a mood via lighting. Shadows on the wall are best.

Leaving Your Girl In Your Place Alone For A Minute.

This is very important. Always make sure your “questionable” items are hidden away at all times. When your girl goes into your bathroom, you can bet she is going through your medicine closet and anything else that can store things. Fact Finding.

When you go to the bathroom and she feels as if she has a ton of time (such as her showing up early and you still haven’t showered) she will go through your closet and drawers.

Actually you can use this to your advantage. You can plant things in order to have her ask questions which she won’t verbalize. Leaving a bullet casing somewhere near your drawers, silk handkerchiefs, maybe a roll of foreign currency. Mystery=Aphrodisiac.

Finally. Always have a bottle of wine on hand.

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